Just when you thought love is tapping you on the shoulder, you’d later realize it’s telling you to move out of the way because it still isn’t your turn.
People often mistake the sweetness of someone for love. Sometimes, you get too carried away by simple gestures of affection. You get the wrong idea not only because of those gestures but also because you assume. To assume is one of the bravest things to do because you take the risk of getting hurt. You see things the way you want and not the way they really are. Later on, you find yourself hating the same person you crazily fell for because of your unrequited feelings. You hate them, even despise them because you got hurt thinking it was love, waiting for it to be returned. People end up saying that love hurts. But love doesn’t hurt. Loneliness does, rejection does, losing someone does. Yet love remains to be one of the greatest feelings you would ever experience.
We do not need a finish line to know when to stop. Sometimes, we just need to stop because we have to and not really because we want to. Letting go is braver than fighting when you know you would eventually lose. In the end, you would realize that you are perfectly happy without that someone or something you thought you needed the most. But that someone, may it be your greatest dream, your worst nightmare or even just a fantasy, will always have a place in your heart for making your life a little crazier. And the love that you got so much of in your heart – use this to heal yourself first. There are a lot of unwritten stories waiting to be inscribed in your life. Love, hate, let go, move on...But what is best for now is a new beginning. Don’t be hasty and don’t wait. Later on, you would have a love story better than what you expected.
Don’t ruin a flower anymore trying to find out if that someone loves you or not. If they do, you don’t have to try being a part of their lives because they will be the one to make an effort to be a part of yours. Life is about choices. What you cannot subdue, you must forget. Then, move on.
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